How Your Can Completely Redesign Your Life

As written for Adventures in Manifesting. Read the article here:

It’s true there’s literally hundreds of people out there telling you that if you imagine your future regularly enough, in enough detail that you’ll bring it into reality. It’s the plague of the book and show “The Secret” that has turned into a bandwagon on which so many wannabes have jumped.

But if so many ‘guarantee’ it works then why haven’t we all got what we want? Even if we imagine our futures daily, in microscopic detail to the backing track of Mariah Carey’s ‘Hero’ or R.Kelly’s ‘I Believe’, why do things not change the way we need them to? And if all that’s not the answer to life, the universe and everything….then what is?

To unravel this conundrum, I’d like to share with you the story of a woman who back in 2004 was boxed into a career she didn’t want, earning wages she wished were higher, who dreamed of a nicer house and a European car, and who was also imprisoned in a body she hated – one that weighed more than 143kgs.

In 2005, at the suggestion of a mentor, she nervously wrote out two plans – one detailing how she wanted her life to be, and one detailing how she wanted her health to be. Her Life Plan also contained a radical change of residence and her top 12 travel destinations. Her Health Plan not only contained weight and body fat goals, but all the required support systems. And whilst these plans captured every detail in S-M-A-R-T format, they also contained her most heartfelt and deepest desires. Little did she know that by writing these plans she had started a chain of events that would change her life forever. And once the plans were finished they were shoved in a drawer, forgotten, never again to see the light of day again.

Fast forward 3 years and the woman had a new life – she had left her dead end job to take on a Managerial career in a global corporation, her salary almost doubling. She had rented out her suburban house and bought a large inner city apartment with city and garden views. She had sold her aging Ford which was replaced with a Renault that she loved driving, and she had visited over half of the travel destinations on her list. But the biggest change of all was her body – she had shed over 70kg – half her body weight – naturally, without surgery and without ‘dieting’.

So how did all this come to be real?

Fortunately I’m in a unique position to tell you how … because … well … that woman is me. Over the years I’ve thought and analysed how I managed to change, or rather, redesign my life. And the truth is, for the most part, it was completely unconscious. Since then I’ve learned that there’s a part of the brain that not only drives us toward, but also decides on what we want, often without consideration for what we may consciously desire. This explains why some people repeatedly attract and select the sort of partner they are trying to avoid.

Funny thing about the brain is that this programming cannot be consciously over-ridden; rather it has to be changed. So in writing my plans I followed a process that allowed me to link the deepest desires of my subconscious to my conscious choices, and by focussing on them I infused them with a relentless passion, cementing it all together in a document to make it real. And by doing this my daily choices became unconscious and automatic, making it easy to achieve everything I wanted.

Did I know it was going to work? No way.

If back in 2005 you’d said to me all this was going to happen I’d have said you were lying.

But I’m so glad it did.

 

To Detox, or Not to Detox?

As written for InShape News

It seems ‘The Master Cleanse’ is all the rage right now. And, whilst I’m dubious, I thought I’d give it a go.

Google reveals it has three parts: Ease In, the Lemonade Diet — think American home-made lemonade not the fizzy carbonated stuff — and Ease Out. The main detox involves drinking a mixture of maple syrup, lemon juice and cayenne pepper in water anytime you feel hungry. No other food except plenty of water, and a laxative each morning and night.

Many detox-style diets start with drinking lemon juice — to soften stools — and cayenne pepper – to speed up the metabolism. The maple syrup simply makes the drink taste better and gives you some calories — about 600 a day — so really this is a bit like a ‘Clayton’s’ version of fasting.

It’s suggested the Lemonade Diet is followed for 10-days, however there’s good medical reasons why you shouldn’t exceed 2 days.

These are as follows:

  •  Your liver requires certain nutrients to function properly.
  • After 48 hours your body’s reserves are depleted and you’ll start feeling side effects including boredom, irritability, lack of concentration and headaches, as well as a decreased metabolism, despite the cayenne.
  • Plus, in any reduced calorie program muscle, not fat, is the first to be consumed by the body.

With all this in mind, I tried the program. Here’s what I thought.

Day 1:

The Lemonade recipe is far too sweet and the pinch of cayenne is hardly noticeable. What is it with American palates? So I halve the syrup and double the pepper. After the second drink I decide I actually don’t like the taste of maple syrup and the conspiracy theorist in me can’t help but wonder if this cleanse is just clever marketing by the Maple Growers Association. I switch to natural raw or Manuka honey instead for its flavour and health properties.

Drinking loads of filtered water helps with stomach rumblings. The water that does most of the detox anyhow. By late afternoon I finally get to the chemist and buy Nu-Lax, which is fruit based and gentle. My energy levels are good but it’s hard not to eat dinner with my husband.

Day 2:

It’s exit all areas and I’d forgotten how bad stomach cramps and the green apple splatters can be. I wonder again why I thought this was a good idea. By the end of day two my energy levels are starting to wane and the extra bowel movements are limiting my regular activities.

Days 3 onwards:

I start adding whole food back to my diet starting with more liquid type foods. These are vegetable soups, fruit and vegetable smoothies and juices for a few days. But, these are only freshly made from ‘live’ ingredients, not shop bought. This allows my intestines to reacclimatise whilst gradually building up my intake of solid foods.

In Summary:

Sure after a few days I feel better and the scales are lighter, but why wouldn’t they be? Really the whole concept of ‘detox’ is a bit of a fallacy. What’s important to realise is these programs don’t actually detox you, they just allow your intestines to empty more than usual.

And it doesn’t really matter which one you do. They all follow basically the same principle. Eat less, eat only living foods and cut out all animal products, sugars, processed foods, caffeine and alcohol. It’s a pretty simple concept, and one that due to increased fibre consumption with or without a laxative, that is sure to get results.

More interestingly though, if we didn’t eat all the rubbish in the first place then we wouldn’t feel we need to detox, ever. And the big issue with all these ‘detox’ programs is that when we go off it, we return to our old habits, and therein lies the real issue. If we ate more sensibly, controlled our intake of calories and processed foods and drank lots of water then we’d feel healthier, our weight would stabilise and we’d probably live longer too.

The bottom line is, detox programs are not a quick weight loss fix. The only real weight loss solution is slow, steady portion control, regular exercise and changing your behaviour at a subconscious level. And I should know because that’s exactly how I lost 70 kilograms and kept it off.

Supporting POSAA

Women with Polycystic Ovary Syndrome (PCOS) face a daunting array of health and medical issues as well as life-changing emotional issues which often lead to depression and weight gain. And it’s in this very battle of the bulge that Melbourne author and weight loss authority Sigrid de Castella wants to help.

Australian women are suffering from an information overload when it comes to their weight, health and fitness. With more than 2,307 weight loss companies in Australia alone, it can often be hard to cut through the clutter and recognise who is being genuine.

Now an ever-growing amount of consumer spending is being directed toward efforts to get thinner and healthier. In 2011, Australians spent $789.6 million on counseling services1, low-calorie foods and shakes, diet cookbooks, weight loss guides, dietary supplements and even surgery in their quest to slim down. But we’re just not getting any thinner.

“The word “diet” has a quick fix connotation that is not only unachievable and unsustainable long term, but actually does more harm than good to your body. If fad diets really worked then they wouldn’t need to keep reinventing themselves” reveals de Castella.

de Castella continues “I understand what women are going through because I’ve been there. Being overweight is a vicious cycle of depression and further weight gain that can spiral out of control to a point where it can seem hopeless to try to change things.”

But de Castella did change things – she lost more than 70kg naturally, without ‘dieting’ and reclaimed her life. And her new book “Half The Woman I Was” imparts to readers her weight loss experience and encourages others to take their own journey.

“Virtually all weight loss companies only focus on diet and exercise which is simply insufficient. I wanted to design a more holistic program that would provide real results for life. That’s exactly what my book does, and I’m living proof it works!” says de Castella.

Whilst de Castella has not personally experienced PCOS, she’s sensitive to those who have, or who are still living with the condition. “What’s important in dealing with PCOS is having a strong support network, and that’s where POSAA can help. It’s been a valuable network for my PCOS friends” explains de Castella.

POSAA aims to support to women with PCOS, promote understanding and awareness of the syndrome and encourage research into PCOS. It’s a ‘self-help’ association for women with PCOS and those who suspect they have it, bringing together sufferers, their families and friends, and medical professionals.

And in recognition of the great work POSAA does de Castella is generously donating five dollars from each purchase of her revolutionary new book “Half The Woman I Was” to POSAA. POSAA members, their families and friends can buy de Castella’s book and know that their purchase is also supporting a great cause.

To see the article click here

Mind Over Matter

As written for SophistiCareer:  http://sophisticareer.com.au/half-the-woman-i-was-how-i-lost-70kg-naturally-part-3/

With my diet and exercise education in full swing, and my new regime producing some great results I still had a niggling feeling that something was still missing. This ‘something’ would give me the edge and change my life forever. This third and very crucial step was to get my spirit right.

I’m not talking religion here – far from it. I’m talking about dealing with all that stuff going on in-between your ears. Without it I knew I would slip back into old behaviours and patterns, and the weight would return with a vengeance.

I began to research how much the subconscious contributed to my weight. It turned out – a lot. The more I researched, the more I realised that dealing with my unresolved issues was going to be the answer to keeping the weight off for life. In fact I estimate that at least 50% of long-term weight loss success can be attributed to having the right mindset.

But I also learned it’s almost impossible to get the right mindset without some help. And, wanting to ensure my new mindset stuck, I decided to multiply my chances fourfold: by reprogramming my subconscious, dealing with my past, cleaning out my life as well as rewarding myself.

Reprogramming the subconscious is not as weird or scary as one might think. Marketers and advertisers have been doing it for decades without us even knowing. I decided that, quite frankly, I would rather be in control of what went into my head. So I began by listening to weight loss hypnosis CDs and I even saw a hypnotherapist. My results got better as I found it easier to stick to my eating and exercise programs.

To deal with my past I attended counselling sessions, training courses as well as a clearing practitioner. Sometimes issues would be resolved quickly, other times it took a few sessions. Sometimes there were tears, other times heartfelt joy and laughter. But it felt good to get rid of old baggage and discard it like an old out-dated overcoat that should never be worn again. And guess what? My results improved again.

I started clearing out the rest of my life – writing overdue letters and cards, rectifying promises I’d made but never fulfilled. I cleaned out my kitchen cupboards, my wardrobe and even the garage shed. I got things fixed that weren’t working or I threw them away. I returned things I’d borrowed and got back things I’d lent. I paid all my bills on time, and tidied up my finances. I not only did a complete spring clean of my surroundings, I clean swept my entire life.

I became a ‘to do list’ convert, ticking things off as I did them, and adding several more items to the bottom. But after a while, and some consistent persistent action, the never ending list began to get shorter. With each completed task I felt a sense of achievement, and renewed enthusiasm. I never got bored because I always had a long list to follow, and I got more done – lots more. And as a by-product I also seemed to start reaching some long terms goals I never thought possible: a new career, car and house (I kept the same husband though!)

I celebrated – often. I set goals for my weight loss: small goals were rewarded with a new CD or DVD; larger goals included treats like a new hair style, a facial and teeth whitening. Two of my major milestones were rewarded with hot air ballooning over the Yarra Valley and flying a glider. All the things I wanted to do, or never had the courage to – I set them as goal rewards – and did them.

The rest, as they say, is history. I’ve kept the weight off now for more than 7 years. Losing 70kg of ‘excess baggage’ has given me health, happiness and a newfound sense of freedom I could never otherwise have known. It took time to implement all three steps into my life and it was difficult at first to get my mind, body and spirit right. But I persisted and once I had aligned my mind, body and spirit it became easier to achieve my goals.

So no matter how far away your goals may seem right now, all you need is the courage to take the first step, and to find the commitment to keep moving forward. If I’ve done it, you can too!

Confessions of a Bikram Virgin

As written for InShape News: http://inshapenewsflash.com/opinion/bikram_yoga/

I have, for some time, been lectured by converts on the ancient wisdom and natural healing powers of this hot form of yoga, so I thought it was time I experienced it for myself.

So, I headed to Bikram Yoga Melbourne, situated on Bridge Road, Richmond, in Victoria, for my first class. I probably should have done some research first, but I wanted to go in cold, with no expectations, no training and no warning. I actually thought it would be a piece of cake having done classical yoga for several years. But Bikram is different.

Firstly, the room is hot — 40 degrees — so you sweat massively. Secondly, whilst participants are quiet there is continual coaching from the instructor, virtually no silence. Thirdly, the class was an hour and a half long. Did I mention the 40 degrees?

Was it easy? It’s true the heated environment allows for much deeper stretching, but I have to admit that after an hour I wanted to run and fling the windows wide-open so I could breathe in the cool air. However, Bikram is also about persistence, dedication and discipline, and it’s in that very moment of doubt where you find your inner strength and power.

Did I like it? I have to confess that Bikram is not my all-time favourite way to work out. But it does provide good variety and has some great health benefits. And the invigoration you feel after you leave the hot room is pretty exhilarating.

Favourite pose? There were 26 (mostly) poses, some easier than others. My favourite was Savasana or the dead body pose. Do Bikram and you’ll find out why!

Will I go back? Whilst studios will suggest that you should practice Bikram yoga daily, I am considering a weekly class to assist with long term flexibility.

 

Bikram Tips:

Follow these simple tips to ensure you get the most out of your class:

  • Having an empty stomach is considered best for all forms of yoga, so it’s best not to eat for two hours before any class.
  • Wear very light clothing. An action back singlet or crop top with stretchy short leggings is best. Sweat head bands and wrist bands can also be useful. And wear thongs or shoes that you can easily remove.
  • It’s yoga etiquette to take your own mat but most studios generally have mats for rent.
  • Take a large bottle of water into class with you, along with a large towel to cover your yoga mat as well as a smaller sweat towel.
  • Don’t wear any perfumes or strong deodorants as this will impact others around you. Class rooms are regularly aired, but if you’re worried then head to the day’s first class for a fresher room.
  • During the class don’t expect to achieve the full poses first time. Go at your own pace and don’t stretch beyond what is reasonable for your level of fitness and experience. In time you will achieve more.
  • After class remember to rehydrate with plenty of water and boost your electrolytes if necessary.

Gonna Make You Sweat

As written for SophistiCareer: http://sophisticareer.com.au/half-the-woman-i-was-how-i-lost-70kg-naturally-part-2/

Step two may seem a bit of a ‘no brainer’ – incorporating exercise into my daily routine. But what kind of exercise would produce maximum results with the least effort? And how little could I really get away with? With my eating plan becoming more comfortable it was now time to get my body right.

At 143kg I struggled to walk, puffing at the slightest incline or increased pace. I would park close to where I was going so I hardly had to walk. I would even drive around trying to find the closest parking space rather than walking an extra 50 metres. So I knew I had to start slow.

At first exercising was just a burning desire to prove the world wrong: that I was born with the world’s worst metabolism and I couldn’t lose weight. I began with a gentle stroll each day at about 3km/hr (225 cal/hr). It was all I could manage. I’d have preferred to be couch surfing and move quickly towards an early death.

But as I started to see results on the scales my mind shifted and I started to actually enjoy it. I began wearing a pedometer and became more creative about ways I could increase my step count: park further away; take the stairs; just move more. That initial change, getting into action, was the most important. Once I actually started doing some exercise it became easier, and once it became easier I then felt like doing more.

With increased activity my mood began to change – the air of depression gradually began to lift and I started to feel more positive. I still had the occasional day where I fell off the wagon – but they became fewer and fewer. In the end weight loss is about consistency of action and commitment to yourself.

Due to my size I had to start with low weight bearing activities to prevent injury. I began to research the amount of calories burned with various exercises. Swimming (563 cal/hr) would have been a good option but the thought of me in a bathing suit in a public pool was paralysing. I opted instead for a stationary bike (675 cal/hr) which I could watch in front of the TV. It kept my mind occupied and enabled me to burn more calories especially as I could wear just a crop top and shorts to work out harder. I may have looked awful but it was in private. And so I began to sweat – a lot of sweat.

But with all this sweat came dehydration, so I had to learn about water: How much did the body need at rest? What about when exercising? What does water actually do in the body? I found out I now needed 4.2 litres each day to rid my body of the toxins from my weight loss activities. Boy was that a lot to get down every day, but my results on the scales continued to improve with each passing week.

After I’d lost around 40kg I wanted to start toning my excess skin so I wouldn’t look like a saggy baggy elephant. I read about the benefits of resistance training for skin elasticity. More importantly I learned that by combining it with high intensity cardio I could actually achieve better weight loss and fitness results by spending less time exercising. I was sold.

But I soon learned that I also had to implement a stretching and recovery routine to get the best results. If I’d trained every day my body would have gotten fatigued, and I’d have become stiff and sore. My body needed time to recover, heal itself and, in the process, build more muscle. And the coolest thing was that having a higher proportion of muscle mass not only meant I looked thinner, it enabled me to burn more fat all day long – even while I was sleeping!

I didn’t realise I had learned so much about my body – now I was really on a roll and I was more motivated than ever. But there was a third and very crucial step that I was about to start implementing, and it was this last step that would make the biggest difference to my weight loss and give me the secret to lifelong health and vitality.

Read about Sigrid’s third step to her amazing weight loss transformation in part 3 of “How I Lost 70kg Naturally” coming soon.

Fat Chance

As written for SophistiCareer: http://sophisticareer.com.au/half-the-woman-i-was-how-i-lost-70kg-naturally/

I recently serendipitously crossed paths with a woman who was the physical mirror image of who I used to be. The likeness shocked me so much that it made me stop and retrace the steps of my own weight loss journey and start asking some rather ‘big’ questions.

Of a similar age and with similar looks this woman had an oversized pear shaped body, just like I used to have – with giant upside down tree trunks for legs. Squeezed into a pair of poorly designed white trousers I estimated she weighed about the same as I had – 143 kg, give or take a few kilos. She’d made a futile attempt to cover up her large frame with an oversized shirt, a clothing staple of my own former wardrobe. I wondered if I used to look as big. My historical photographic evidence proves that I did.

I mentally compared my now slender frame against hers as I walked past her, trying not to stare. My old overweight frame shed more than seven years ago now seemed a distant memory. But this visual event had jolted me. The truth be told I had an almost overwhelming urge to run and give her a copy of my book, to help her ‘see the light’ and give her the answer. But I knew that if I did talk to her, that if I broached the subject, it could possibly be very painful for her. When you are that large the protection mechanisms are so overpowering that the interaction could have turned out very badly for her, and for me.

This retrospective on my life and temporary reconnection with the pain of being obese got me thinking about the changes I had made in my life in order to achieve such a startling life transformation. I started to wonder what was it that made this lady the size she was. I questioned why I’d been able to overcome my barriers to weight loss, and more intriguingly why she had not.

Diet is a Four Letter Word

The first step, on reflection, was that I had to get the right knowledge base into my head – I had to get my mind right. As a large child growing up into an even larger adult I wasn’t given the depth and breadth of knowledge about food that I believe every child should learn at school. And unfortunately most parents don’t know this information either and so sadly we’re turning into a society of large adults breeding very large kids.

I had to learn about food composition – carbohydrates, proteins, fats, salts, fibre. And I delved deeper: What is the difference between a simple carb, a complex carb, and the different between sugars? What makes a good fat bad? What fats are essential every day? How much sodium is okay and what’s the effect of having too much, or too little in my diet? How much is enough protein? What type of protein is best? What are the types of fibre? Was I was eating the right type and quantity to help prevent disease and to help me feel fuller, longer?

I delved further still learning about calorie density: A 60g Mars® Bar has 277 calories – the same as 2.3 kilograms of celery, which I couldn’t possibly eat. That same bar contains 42.2g of carbohydrates, 34.5g of which is pure sugar but I’d have to eat more than 5 times the amount of apple, over 300g, to achieve the same carbohydrate and sugar result, (except the sugar in fruit is healthier fructose and not sucrose). And that same bar contains zero fibre and a lousy 2.2g of protein, the same as a measly 8.5g of chicken meat. And that bar contains a whopping 6g of saturated fat – I’d have to eat three times the amount of chicken meat, over 180grams, to achieve that fat level.

And just as important I had to retrain myself into appropriate portion sizes, as over time I had taught myself to eat bigger and bigger meals. Understanding these differences and learning what the right food choices were was a huge paradigm shift for me. It was my first step to weight loss in getting the education to know the right choices, and then having the courage to make them that started my transformation. But it was my next step that was going to be an even bigger challenge.

Read about Sigrid’s second step to her amazing weight loss transformation in Part 2 of “How I Lost 70kg Naturally” coming soon.

Femail.com.au Interview

New Melbourne author Sigrid de Castella believes she has unlocked the secret to long term weight loss and mapped the way through the mental and physical battle with her new book “Half the Woman I Was”.

The book is the first from de Castella who promises more after the gratifying experience of penning her success in changing her life for the better.

de Castella decided to write the book following more than 30 years of battling with her weight before deciding to take her life in her own hands. Upon commencing her journey, de Castella believed there was likely thousands of other out there also wanting to commence the battle.

Wanting to help ease the pain of their struggle too, de Castella started her honest book in the hope it would inspire others to take the journey.

de Castella explains, “I grew up an obese child in a family of athletes. Running marathons was something that most of my family did regularly – or had done. Health and fitness was something that was valued incredibly highly, particularly as my uncle was an advocate of Pritikin. As a result always felt out of place in my family and, as I grew older and my weight increased, I felt more alienated, like I had been dropped into someone else’s family of fitness freaks.”

“As if being a fat child wasn’t painful enough with all the teasing and name calling from the other kids, being a fatter adult was even worse. Having a famous surname synonymous with health and fitness, I was shamed almost every day as people who were introduced to me or saw the name on my credit card asked me if I was related to the Commonwealth Games Gold medalist. After replying in the affirmative I often felt their eyes gaze me up and down and silently ask the painful question “so why are you so fat?”

“It was not until I was 34 years old and weighing in at more than 143kg that I hit the wall and the answer to my lifelong problem revealed itself. It was only when I was ready, and willing to see, that the fog lifted and the ‘Secret’ was exposed. The solution was so fundamentally logical and technically brilliant that I couldn’t believe no one had told me about it before.”

“First and foremost what I had to understand was that no one could help me until I was ready to help myself. No matter how many people I asked for help, nothing was going to change until I was ready for the journey that would take me from obesity to health and vitality. That journey of 20 months in which I shed more than half of my body weight was done safely, naturally and without surgery. By gaining health and vitality I slashed years off my body age and added many more years to my life expectancy. I went from a size 30 to a size 10 and my feet shrank three full shoe sizes.”

“Half the Woman I Was” is the ultimate distillation of all Sigrid de Castella learned in her personal journey from morbid obesity to health and vitality.

de Castella adds, “I was asked to write this book after many people who saw my transformation asked me what the ‘secret’ was. The ‘secret’ is a holistic experience through self-education, knowledge and wisdom.”

 

Interview with Sigrid de Castella

Question: What originally inspired you to begin losing weight?

Sigrid de Castella: I had been trying for most of my life to lose weight and I couldn’t understand why I was different and I had become really angry and upset about my situation. I’d grown up with the belief that I’d been born with the world’s worst metabolism and there was nothing I could do to change it. I happened to see the first season of America’s Biggest Loser and I saw these really big people, who were just like me, starting to lose the weight and change their lives, I started to wonder why I was different and why I couldn’t do it. I began doing research, started making small incremental changes and learning a lot and I realised I could do it!

Question: Why did you want to write about your experience, in a book?

Sigrid de Castella: I’ve written for many, many years and I’d always kept a journal and as I was going along I had a lot of people who saw me losing the weight, every week I’d lose more and more and more and because I’d been so big, for so long a lot of people came to me and asked ‘What are you doing?’ Then, I’d have dismayed people come to me and say ‘I’m having so much trouble losing weight’ which made me think that my story could inspire other people to go on a similar journey and really reclaim their lives back and change their lives to have everything that they ever wanted.

Question: How did you begin losing weight?

Sigrid de Castella: The first things I did was:
Really analyse what I was eating and get a better education about food values and calorie density which is something that a lot of people don’t talk about; 100g of celery has a vastly different calorie density to 100g of chocolate.
I have hereditary lymphedema which is swelling of the lymph gland which is quiet a painful condition, I am only a level one which is fairly mild but still incredibly painful and having all the weight on exasperated that condition so much that it was painful to walk. I saw others outside doing exercise and I really wanted to get outside and do something; I started walking around the block and gradually increased my exercise and didn’t do anything terribly strenuous because it was about moving more.
I also began drinking a lot more water because I didn’t drink a lot of water.

What I discovered by making those three small changes (changing diet, increasing my water consumption drastically and moving that little bit more) was that I started getting pain relief from my condition and that enabled me to feel motivated to continue down that track and continue to make changes.

Question: Can you talk about what the ‘secret’ is?

Sigrid de Castella: I talk about the secret a lot and I refer to it as the ‘secret’ because it is hard to sum up, briefly. When I was asked ‘what is the secret?’ at first I answered ‘diet and exercise’ but it’s really not about diet and exercise; there are over 2,300 weight loss companies in Australia and they all promote diet and exercise – if they all worked, Australia wouldn’t be the fattest country in the world with over 75% of the population overweight or obese. It’s not just about diet and exercise – they are important yes, but it’s not the main part.

For my program the main thing is about 50% getting your head right which includes clearing that mental baggage that is preventing you from actually believing that you can lose weight and you can do it. We were all called things, growing up as kids and we’re scolded for getting something wrong and told ‘you’re stupid’ and you actually start to believe it; over the years with a lot of name calling from kids such as ‘you’re fat’ I believed that I was always going to be like that. I had to start peeling back those layers and understanding the programs that my subconscious was running that were making me believe that was going to be my only reality.

It’s 50% about getting your mind right, 35% about understanding food and only about 15% exercise. People think that when they go on a weight loss program that its majority exercise and that they have to spend hours and hours in the gym and it’s really not about that at all. People place far too much emphasis on exercise and not enough on getting their head in the right place.

Question: How did being overweight affect your life?

Sigrid de Castella: I was still very successful in my career although I didn’t have as much confidence as I have now and I wasn’t as happy. I was always a fairly happy person and when I say I am much happier now people, who had known me all that time, were quite surprised because I was always very happy; I was happy on the outside but not on the inside. I feel there is a much better alignment between who I really am inward and outward.

Everything was difficult when I was bigger. Getting clothes was really difficult especially getting proper business attire and looking right. I didn’t like the way I looked and moving was really difficult and I would always try and find the closest carpark to wherever I had to go because I didn’t want to walk. It was difficult to get everything done in a day; there was a lot of struggle.

Question: What advice do you have for other women who want to begin losing weight?

Sigrid de Castella: Other than buying the book (laughing)! Start doing some inward exploration and start analysing why you are the way you are. You’re not really going to change your life, until you’re ready to change your life and that’s the biggest thing because it didn’t matter how many people tried to help me when I was bigger, it wasn’t until I got to the point where I wanted to change that I could do it. I needed to see it was possible to begin.

It’s easy to say to someone join a specific health program, stop eating or join the gym but until you understand why you want to do it all you are not going to be able to change your behaviour. It is a big and confronting topic for most people to understand why they are doing the things that they are doing but it is the most pivotal question you need to ask yourself.

Question: Do you recommend calorie counting or calorie awareness?

Sigrid de Castella: It depends! In my book I talk about calorie counting (manual or a computer program) as a sort of a lifejacket because if you’re an overeater you’re able to use calorie counting as a lifejacket to re-educate yourself about what you should be eating. If you’re an overeater and you don’t understand food values then yes, calorie counting or getting calorie controlled home delivered meals for a period of time is a very beneficial method of re-educating yourself about what you should be eating.

Having said that, I don’t agree with a lot of the pre-packaged meals that are delivered to homes because I feel their emphasis is on the wrong types of components and they are too carbohydrate-heavy. It is most beneficial if you can learn to cook and eat the right meals and then you won’t have to count calories, I don’t count calories now.

Before I started I was obviously eating all the wrong foods, I ate a very high fat, high sugar, high carbohydrate diet because it tasted really good although they are not good for you and they don’t provide the level of nutrition that you need to sustain your body and have it performing at an optimal level. When you eat a diet high in vegetables, complex carbohydrates and lean protein your body gets all the nutrients (particularly if you are eating organic or biodynamic) that provide nourishment so you don’t have to take a multi-vitamin which isn’t as effective as getting the actual vitamins, minerals and trace elements out of real food.

Interview by Brooke Hunter

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Sleeping Beauty Isn’t a Late Night Girl

And here’s why: Staying up late has some dangerous effects on the body – in fact it’s much more serious than just feeling a little tired or groggy in the morning.

It’s Not Natural: For 500,000 years man (and woman) has lived a diurnal existence – waking with the sun and sleeping when it’s dark. This is our design by simple evolution. However with technological advancement we now have the option to change our life-style and choose instead to be nocturnal. But forcing the body to go against its natural design places it under extreme stress and causes mental and physical changes in our body.

The Brain Drain: Most of us are aware that late nights can lead to sleep deprivation – just ask a night shift worker or someone that suffers from a sleeping disorder. Not getting the necessary 8 hours of quality sleep the body requires to regenerate and recharge itself each night leads to a reduction in brain and cognitive function. Dozens of studies have proven the clear connection between a lack of sleep and reduced mental stability. When this happens we experience reduced alertness, co-ordination, concentration, memory, and motivation.

Emotionally Charged: A 2007 joint study between Harvard Medical School and the University of California revealed that sleep deprivation causes a change in the brain where we are simply unable to put things into the proper perspective. As a result we become more emotional and tend to over react to simple events, often blowing things out of proportion.

The Long Haul: Insufficient or irregular sleeping patterns also have far reaching effects on the body’s long-term equilibrium, producing stress and creating hormonal changes. This causes a cascading range of physical effects in the body often leading to changes in body weight, a weakened immune system, high blood pressure, premature aging and even sleep paralysis. Further, a study in 2001 by Chicago Medical Institute proposed that a continued lack of quality sleep could also be linked to diseases including stroke, heart disease, breast and prostate cancer, and mental illness including psychosis and bipolar disorder.

Bottom Line: Sure, having the occasional late night every now and again won’t cause irreversible damage. But getting enough restful sleep each night is critical to maximising your health and vitality. And if you want to stay as youthful and beautiful as Sleeping Beauty then stick to a regular sleep schedule and see your doctor if you’re having trouble sleeping.

Fly and Eat Right

It can bemuch more difficult to maintain or lose weight whilst traveling because we’re away from our usual routine and our usual food sources. Flying, in particular, can be a disaster for diets as airline food tends to be very high in sodium, sugar, saturated fats (and trans fats!) and preservatives and low in vitamins, minerals and fibre. But why is this so and what can we do about it? Guillaume de Syon, a history professor at Albright College said that the higher altitudes alter the way we taste and food will often taste “dry and flavorless” as a result of the pressurization. Further passengers, feeling thirsty due to pressurization, many drink alcohol when they ought to drink water.

Whilst many airlines are trying to impove the quality of their meals there are three main reasons that they will rarely reach a high standard. First, the change in the air pressure and the low humidity inside the cabin numbs about one third of our taste buds making ‘normal’ food tasteless. Increased salt, sugar and spice are added to make airline meals more palatable. Second, airline meals need to be precooked and frozen to comply with health and safety standards. Unfortunately, the freezing process tends to degrade the taste of food (again) and so the meals are loaded up with even more extra salt and fat to compensate.  And third, preservatives and hydrogenated vegetable oils (high in trans fats) are necessary to stabilise and store the food.

So what can we do about it? First is to eliminate or restrict alcohol to one standard drink. The second is to drink plenty of bottled water – at least an average of 200mls per hour every hour. And avoid the sodas and fruit juices which hold no nutritional value.  Third is to order a special diabetic meal. Diabetic meals are lower in salt, sugar and fat, and whilst they may taste a little more bland they are generally prepared fresher, contain more fresh ingredients and are much better for you. Plus you’ll generally get served your meal first! If you’re on low cost carriers who don’t supply meals then make sure you have healthy low carb, low fat, low salt and no sugar foods to take with you to avoid the risk of impulse buying their unhealthy offerings.

Sigrid de Castella – weight loss achiever, paleoish intermittent faster, adrenal fatigue recoverer, foodie, cook, writer, globetrotter & dog lover